Ben's 2nd Anniversary Newsletter 2013
HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE xxx
Bens Wish To Walk
Sunday, 6 January 2013
Monday, 20 August 2012
St Louis the return trip!!!!!!
Well
after a long 22 hours of travelling we finally navigated ourselves to the hotel
in St Louis. It was great to be back in a familiar place. After only
being the hotel for 2 minutes we met a couple of SDR pals.
After
getting some supplies form the local Snuckes thanks to Tim for taking us. We
settled down for an early night.
Before we knew it it was Monday
morning and our first chance to see the amazing children's hospital and
see what Dr Park has to say about Ben's progress. Apart from arriving an hour
early! Yes it was my fault!!! We bobbed to the Bread Company for a quick
coffee.
In Dr Parks office we met up with Abby the amazing
media lady & Erica (from America) the fabulous PT - it felt like
being back at home.
We were called into see Dr Park office, it was like
we were back 19 months previous sat there all nervously waiting to see the
great man himself.
As always in walks Dr Park full of smiles and
Pleased to see us.
We had a long chat & he also took time to
examine Ben asking lots of question & answering all of ours. He
explained the areas we needed to work on & stood by his early prediction
that Ben will walk the majority of the time unaided and will probably
only need a stick for long distances!!! We were amazing as we thought this was
where Ben would & maybe we would see a small amount of improvement but this
again exceeded our expectations. I think Ben was rather pleased too.
Dr Park Left the room, he did bob back in t say he would like to see us again in a years time - So another trip to plan!
Once we had finished we had 30 minutes until our
video PT assessment with Erica, s Damian took, Grandma, Grandad & Jakey off
to the zoo where we would meet them later.
Erica called us in – we had a great chat and caught up on all the gossip. We did have to do so much as it was only the things Ben could not do last time we were there. There was lots of laughter as always when Ben & Erica get together. Before we knew it we were all done and heading off to the zoo.
Friday, 3 August 2012
End of an era
Well
that’s it; Primary school is finished for Ben.
Who would have thought all those years ago when I first dropped Ben off
for his first day with his walker & splints on that he would be
independently walking out by himself and been on ONE AMAZING JOURNEY.
Ben
has changed so much since, and in many many ways – the last 3 years have been
the hardest by far. But as always Ben take it all in his stride!
We
wish to thank every teacher & teaching assistant that has helped him along
his school life.
Mrs
McClean, Mrs Mitchell, Mrs Martin, Mrs Pratt (Caz) Mr Smith
Mrs
Rodley & Mrs Bullock – Mrs Clarke, Mrs Ambler, Mrs Cawood
Miss
Celli – Miss Allen, Mrs Bates, Mrs Lowe, Miss Laycock
Miss
Hetherton – Mrs Poad, Mrs Tate, Miss Dennison (aka Otchel)
Miss
Taylor – Mrs Jenner, Mrs Fischbach
Mrs
Buckley – Mrs Fox
Mr
Marsh & Mrs Robinson ----- To name but a few ---- THANK YOU xx
Autumn 2008
Summer 2012
And so the summer is finally here, well the weather seems to have forgotten. Ben is loving his new found independence which has enable him to go into town with his friends & also thanks to his swimming achievement s I now feel confident to let him go to the Lido – Which he loves!
So
we find ourselves in a very familiar place – looking at packed bags nervously
check & re checking ticket & passports.
But this time it’s different, we are heading back to a very special
place – St Louis. This time the anxiety
has gone it’s going to be more of an exciting time and we can’t wait to see
everyone again. We are also introducing Grandma Linda & Grandad Rob to our very
special place St Louis & they will get to meet the great man himself – Dr Park.
We
had always planned to go back & see Dr Park and his team it was just about
the timing, so we made the decision in the early part of this year to make the
journey back to St Louis for a number of reasons. We have had no end of problems trying to get
suitable foot orthics for Ben and fail until very recently thanks to the great
team at TayCare in Leeds. But we want
the experts to give us there opinions so we can move forward as we now know Ben
will always need some sort of foot support whether it is a splint – SMO (small
ankle splint) or insert. So we hope
they will help us make the right decision for Ben’s future.
Secondly
we always planned to go back to see St Louis in the summer as it was such a
beautiful place and will always have a special place in our heart. We decided to combine it all with our summer
holiday.
I
will try to blog a few times while we are there to fill you all in on our
adventures – one thing is for sure it going to AMAZING...
A very special place!
More from across the pond later!!
Charlotte
XX
Wednesday, 18 July 2012
Ben 10 +1
Well
11 years ago today one little shrimp came into the world just a little early.
One Day Old!
Since
then he has grown into one amazing young man who I adore and am so very very
proud of in many ways.
Ben
has had a hard year both mentally (SAT’s!) and physically but has always
carried on with his relentless smile & only a small about out grumblings.
There
have been lots of achievements this year – 2 Karate Grading’s , Swimming 400m!,
Going swimming ON HIS OWN with his mate to make but a few.
In
2 days time Ben will leave Primary school to head off the great unknown world
of Grammar school, he is excited & nervous as we both are but this is a
challenge we are both ready for (ish!).
He
has an amazing group of friends who have been there through thick & thin
and I’m sure there will be there for him at Grammar School. I can’t believe how much he has changed in
the last 6 months alone, to say we are proud is a huge understatement, and his
finally school report reflects just how far he has come both academically &
physically.
So
to the Summer – a well earned trip to St Louis to see Dr Park & all at St
Louis Children Hospital. We are so
looking forward to them seeing him & also so we can pick their brains about
the concerns we have with Ben. One thing
is for sure this has a whole different feel to the last time we went. The finally bonus is we are heading off to
Orlando for a spot of Disney Adventures & cheeky dolphin swimming.
What
more can we say but Thank You to all for you for helping Ben get to were he is now &
who know where he will go next! The Skies the limit!
Charlotte xx
Monday, 11 June 2012
Many New Adventures!!!
Many
New Adventures!!!
It
has been a while since my last update and a LOT has happened since then. Ben hit his 1 year post op anniversary full on
and threw himself into all sorts of things.
Ben
& Jacob began karate back in September, both really enjoying it and full
taking part. We took both (nervous) boys
up for their grading on Sunday 26th February – Ben was a little more
so then Jacob.
The
grading began – The boys worked so hard, Ben managed to stand (not fall) for 50
minutes, he did get a 2 minute break when he asked me to rub his feet. Then it was all over, we waited for Mark to
read the results. Jacob came first –
10/10
& 6 Gold stars – meaning he had excelled in 6 areas.
As
for Mr Ben well....
10/10
& 3 Gold stars – I of course burst into tears, to say we were proud was an
understatement. Ben was so pleased, as
was everyone in the group.
In
May they both for their Orange Belt Grading and again both passed.
This
would not have been any way near possible before SDR!
The
next major event this term was our first visit to IGS (Ilkley Grammar School)
Ben is due to start in September 2012!!!!
Along
with the Learning Support Team & school it had been decided to try Ben out
with a couple of half/full days as to see exactly how & if he manages to
get himself around. He was really keen
to do this but as the day finally arrived he changed his mind. After a long chat he agreed to go and see how
he got on. So we pulled up to the school
& we met Mrs Brayers and he was off.
I had charged & top up his phone & asked him to text me at break
time just to see how he was going. I
checked my phone at break & no message! I did panic a little but there was
nothing I could do. I checked again at
the end of break and there was a message ‘Having fun ;)’ I was ecstatic he
was so happy. I didn’t get the full
lowdown till after school as he was picked up by Grandad Rob and taken straight
back to school for lunch. But I could
tell he loved it so much so he was going back next week but for a full day. The following week was the same he loved it
and the school was really happy with the way he managed to get around and there
were no problems – so it’s all looking good for September. He does have 1 more day in June when all the
children who are due to start in September go up for the full day – so that
will be interesting.
Ben
has a 2 more visits to IGS in June but these are with the rest of his school
and are more fun than just before!
Ben
was also looking forward to the SDR party in March in Daventry. 90 families 76 Dr Parks’s patients, 3 Mr
Aquilian’s patients & 11 pre op. We
were all so excited to be able to finally meet face to face all the wonderful
people who have been supporting us through our SDR journey & family who we
have helped too, it was going to be great for everyone.
We
had arranged to stay in the hotel Friday night as well as Saturday so as soon
as Damian was home from work we were off.
2 hours later we were checked in and talking to some of the families who
were like us there for both nights. I felt
great been able to speak to so many friends who have all been on the same
journey – if somehow all also a little different in their own way.
It
was one of the best weekends we have ever had I think Ben put it in the best
words possible – ‘For once I felt ‘Normal’ the same as everyone else...
We
had chance to catch up with all our friends, The Wardleworth’s, The Whitton’s
& The Lawrence’s, The Storr’s to name but a few. We spent the evening sharing stories,
laughing & joking and meeting Dr Park for the first time in over a
year.
Calendar
News sent a cameraman to follow us for the first part of the evening –Click
here to see it!
Thing
we all going well and things seem to settle down and we had a calmer time. Ben contained to improve his mobility still
only using his walker on a Friday lunchtime for football, I wish he would realize he can do it as well if not better with his crutches.
Ben
has also started to run, He surprised not only me but also his physio and ran
down the drive – he was amazing a quite quick too. I will post a video soon.
We
still have the endless struggles of getting good shoe inserts that support his
feet and easy to get in and out of his shoe and also shoes that give him the
support he needs for his weak ankles!
We
also looked into our return to St Louis – this is not essential but we feel that
we will all benefit from returning.
Hopefully get Ben inserts sorted and a couple of PT session and also to
see all our friends. Plus the weather
will be 100% better and warmer.
I
can’t quite believe Ben has only 6 weeks left at primary school, the time has
just flown – Then starts another big chapter in Ben Journey!!
Who
knows what will happen next in Ben SDR adventure but for sure his future is
looking a whole lot brighter!!!
Thursday, 5 January 2012
One
year Anniversary!!!
Well
One Year ago today Dr Park & his amazing team changed Ben’s life FOREVER.
Just before his surgery
In ICU just after surgery
First PT session
Still in pain!
Getting stronger only on day 5
Back at our American home - all smiles x
The
decision to take Ben to America was extremely hard for all of us as it is for
any parent ~ But knowing he was being treated by the BEST TEAM in the world,
there was really no question at all.
It
was a hard 5 weeks in America, but with the amazing support from all at St
Louis Children’s Hospital, The Wardleworth family & also the lovely Charlie
& Tina from Calendar News. We got
through it and made in home for the ‘REAL’ hard work to start.
Ben
has had an amazing year with many many changes not only with his mobility. He has become alot calmer & able to focus
on his academic work more and he is achieving so much more in all areas.
We
have good days and bad & I’m sure there are many many more still to come.
Looking
back a year ago and think how Ben was racing around dragging his feet with his
walker knees knocking each other but still with a huge grin on his face. Were as today he walks taller unaided
for the most part of the day, they using his elbow crutches for the
rest of the day. His walker only sees
the light of day on a Friday Lunchtime for Football on the MUGA (Multi Use Gym
Area!) which is amazing. He is wanting
to walk more and more unaided which is amazing to see and what’s more I can now
walk beside him and hold his hand ( he doesn’t really like me doing it I think
he’s just humouring me for a while!)
Lot of Firsts for this year!!!!
Well
we are so very very proud of him in so many ways I could burst sometimes –
especially as I see him walking with his friends and laughing.
Who
knows what will happen this year but it’s a whole lot rosier now!
Thank
you everyone without your help he would not be where he is now, from the bottom
of our hearts we Thank You J
A Message from the Man himself (short & Sweet)
Charlotte,
Damian, Jacob & of course Ben x
Sunday, 1 January 2012
Hello 2012!!!!
Well as
we look back over 2011 are reflect what a mixed year it has been – but one thing
is for sure we will NEVER EVER FORGET!
Ben & the AMAZING Dr Park
As
we entered 2011 we were heading for Manchester Airport to start on our journey
to St Louis to see the amazing Dr Park, to change Ben’s life FOREVER...
Christmas 2011
We
did not anticipate just how hard a journey it was going to be, but as always we
put our all into it. We met so many
amazing people along our SDR journey in America. Dr Park & his team were
amazing for start to finish – this made our decision so much easier and
confirmed we had made the right chose for Ben.
Not
forgetting Abby Wuellner from SLCH media team (& Brad the videographer) again
one amazingly lovely lady who we can now call a friend. Erica & Mad Mike PT from SLCH without you
helping Ben from the beginning he would not be where he is today, you made the
early days of PT easier for all of us. Dr Dobbs & his team made PECS’s
surgery so quick and easy for Ben and enabling him to walk on flat feet for the
first ever. Charlie & Tina from
Calendar News (& everyone else back in the newsroom) were not just people
following us with a camera but became an amazing support in America and now we
can call friends (they may disagree!).
As
we enter 2012 things are so different in many ways then last year, we cannot
express how truly grateful we are to everyone who help us not only get Ben to
America but supporting his aftercare – which has been so vital in his progress
to where he is today and where he will be in months to come!
Ben
has another exciting year ahead with only 8 months of primary school left,
Grammar School is calling. We have lots
of meetings and visits planned to help his transition go as smoothly as
possible and give him the best start to the next step on his education ladder. No doubt there will be more swimming
achievements & even a few karate ones to add to the every grown list. And hopefully we will see the return of the
walker back to the physio department from where it came... Ben only uses it for football at school; we
have not had it out of the garage since the end of last term, but it will only
be when HE is ready to do it! Fingers
crossed we will be returning to St Louis to see everyone again for Ben’s 1
(ish) year on check up. We also have the
amazing SDR party to attend in March with some 70+ SDR families a some of the
American team as well – Dr Park included which will so lovely to see everyone.
It goes without saying that we are so very very proud of Ben and all he has achieved this year, he really is one in a million xxx
All
that’s left to say is a very HAPPY NEW YEAR one & all.
Let’s hope
2012 brings us all that we want it to and a few other bits as well.
Charlotte xx
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